Blog Reader Looking For Nigerian Wife Shares Ordeal With Girl He Met On Facebook(Screenshots)
Blog reader T is based in the UK. His parents have been pressurising him to marry a Nigerian girl, so he recently took to Facebook to mingle, and hopefully find a wife. During his search, he stumbled on a girl whose appearance he liked and tried getting to know her. Unfortunately, the conversation went awry after they just started talking and the lady requested money from him. See his mail and screenshots fro the conversation between him and the girl below:
Hi Moji
Just thought to drop you a line. I am a Nigerian based in the UK. I have just qualified as a registered nurse. By HIS grace, I can say I am quite comfortable. Recently, I have been getting pressured into finding a wife back home in Nigeria. Hence my search everywhere I could. Well, I met this “good looking ” female on Facebook, and we got chatting.
Please, find attached our conversation.
Lol… me I kuku advised him that Facebook may not be the best place to find a wife/husband in Nigeria…yes some people are lucky but the success rate pretty low. But why will you start asking money from a guy you barely know, how do you think that portrays you? SMH. Hopefully, T will get lucky in his search for a wife soon.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong in this. If I’m right they probably have been talking before now. He didn’t need all the insults just because the poor girl asked for help. The guy is delusional I must say. The lady even replied responsibly men and their stupid mentality. What’s wrong in helping a friend even if u wouldn’t at the end of the day date her. People need to learn the act of giving sha
You’re so on point…
It’s obvious the dude is an obnoxious jerk as*, he tricked her into asking for his assistant and he went for her jagular, talking about stamping on someone that’s down.
All this naijas abroad sometimes feel they’re above others, they look down on those that stayed back home to make a change, they form like say dem be god. There are so many way to turn down a girls request, so because you fit get her visa to go UK, no mean say you should treat her like a bit*h.
The way he brags about his achievements and throw shades at her like she’s a trash, show how low he his and how he can never have a healthy relationship. Just because it’s hard out there in the UK, with tax and cost of living don’t mean you should loose your sense of reasoning.
You prey on her nativity, you lure her into a relationship with you online, you make her believe in you, she trusted you, she shares with you what she can’t with those close with her, she revealed her inner most secrets to you, you’re the friend that she can’t wait to chat with after a hard day, the one she relied on, the one who listened, and after she laid all her guards down, you draw her close to you, looked straight into her enchanting eyes, you can feel her heart raised and yearned for you, then you stabbed her straight in the heart, you twisted it in and laughed at her stupidity and watched the light deemed in her shocked eyes as she take her last breath. Bro, You’re so cruel.
Now I know why some women will rather kill a man before they kill a snake.
Amin
The guy ain’t nice at all. Didn’t you see or notice the twerking videos before asking her out? And how much is 30k that would prompt referring to her as an Olosho? Mr. Man, you are not a husband material as a matter of fact, you still have a long way to go. Never say never. You’ll have a daughter someday and make sure she studies hard to make A 1 in all her courses. And Girl, to be frank with you…. stop twerking on Facebook, that’s not good at all.
He didnt ask about her age until she asked him for money??? Hmmm, a simple I don’t have or I can’t give you the money because of blah blah blah is alryt, which one b olosho?? I am pretty shior his mother n uncles raised him better, shiior!!
He should kukuma find wife in the uk and marry, he first of all said he added her cause she is beautiful, he’s looking for beauty not xter or personality. until young people begin to look beyond the physical, we’ll end up in a lot of loveless, unhappy and faulty relationships. Mr reader,e dakun, find wife in the abroad that has your specifications oh,they might be selling them tesco,sainbury’s, asda,lidl and the likes okay?
Ds is big nonsense!! Y r ppl dsubtn demselvs ova unimportant tins? Is DAVIDO d 1st persn 2 slip wt a woman? Weda she is his girlfrnd or not,its nobody’s business atleast its nt rape,his nt rapin her,d lady herslf is smilin so leav it 4 him n his woman 2 tackle if she’s nt his girlfrnd.
We were all students,back then,we all know all this ish,if u go for a student def u will get such attitude,if it were a working class babe,I doubt he will get such reaction,goodluck in ur search,whether its FB,tango or wat not,its not just naija girls,so don’t generalise,guys too don’t help matters ciao!
Seriously, d guy is a fool! Jez for him 2 say it straight dat he doesn’t av money,he shlda kuku do dat instead of blasting a small girl! It happened 2 me b4,i swear 2 God! When I was still in school! There was dis lecturer dat wld enter d class and say “Reading ur books all d time won’t make u pass! Especially my course,u all know wat 2 do! And 2 sort in a private university den was something big! I got part of d money,cldnt call my dad 2 tell him! Luckily,there was dis frnd of mine on fbk dat worked with Oceanic bank den! Didn’t know when I asked him 4 money! He gave me x2 of what I asked for,which I was very happy n prayed for him! There is Nuffin bad in helping a lil girl! No need 2 insult him! Just say u don’t av! Which already shows dat u are d stingy type sef! Dumb ass
It is disheartening how some of these osanle guys look down on our ladies, and I don’t blame them, some Nigerian ladies have thrown their pride into the dung so why won’t chaps like this look down on them. Just the other day, I met a lady online, we barely chatted for 5mins and she was already demanding for a recharge card. It is everywhere, but asking her whether she is an olosho is wrong and insulting, haba! That’s unfair, the bossy nature of the dude is bad, woe betide a lady that mistakenly marries him, because he will always look at her as if he is her god and will remind her at the slightest provocation “how he brought her from the slumps”…….
He didnt need to insult her in my own opinion!!! Hmm, funny enough, she is a polite person and d 30k problem just looks like her major prob at d time and he was unlucky to be chatting with her at dat instance.. wrong to ask for money true some gals can be irritating, she could be one of dem but den dis guy is rude and if dis is ow he treats girls, goodluck on his search, he probably would find a rude whiye gal to complement him. Cheers
This dude is the most un-enlightened/ un-oriented nigga I’ve seen all my life, seems he can’t even lend a helping hand with no strings attached, what has helping her got to do with classifying naija girls as same? If she was truly an olosho; she’ll get the money here without saying a word to you about it, anyways best of luck on your search dude
…Bang bang, he shot me downBang bang, I hit the groundBang bang, that awful soundBang bang, my baby shot me down.I know this is not the place for kaakore, but when I saw those shoes and someone here mentioned Cher, I just couldn’t resist..
Hahahaha. Telling a guy dat a lecturer needs your 30k is inner most secret. What a joke. Is this situation even news or d norm? We need to tell these girls to stop twerking on Facebook and face their books. When they start sleeping around with ur husbands una go know. Mshew…Bcos na britico talk am.