What It Takes To Be A Player…..

Article written by MDB contributors,  read below:

According to Wikipedia,a player is a man who has romantic affairs or sexual relations or both with other women or men but will not marry or commit to any one relationship. He is always emotionally guarded.

The truth is no one is born a player.  Instead, it takes lots of knowledge, skill and readiness to learn about the nooks and crannies of the game.  Becoming a player has to start from within which requires that one prepare themselves for what is to become of them, before going out and practising their charm.

First, you need to become well acquainted with the female gender. You need to know how the female mind works by being comfortable around women. You need to talk less and listen more and you will get to understand them at a deeper level, and know the things they like or dislike, how they like their men, how they like being treated and what they expect from a man.

To get started, you need to have a few female friends.  These may include your close relatives, colleagues at work or friends.  By spending some time with these close female friends, you will learn of very interesting tips and tricks to add in your game.  Examples of these include how to flirt, flatter, compliment and have a conversation with women.

Secondly, you need to be the kind of a man women need to be around.  This means that you don’t have to be the one to always chase after them, but the other way round; them chasing after you. The fact is women only believe men want three things which are; SEX,FOOD AND MORE SEX. So you as a guy should get with the programme because no matter how much you argue with a woman you cannot win this discussion. Even if you are a pope.

Characteristics Of A Good Player:
As a player in training, you need to be someone who is highly confident about themselves, dresses and smells good, is eloquent enough and knows how to have a good time.
By possessing these characteristics, every time you are in public or a social gathering, you’ll notice several women giving you flirtatious looks while the more confident one’s may come over to talk to you.

Why Players Never Commit:
There comes a time in every young “Player’s life” when he looks around him and realises, with a sinking feeling in the pit of his stomach, that his fling has progressed into the area of commitment.

At that point, he looks into the past and wonders how he missed the moment of transition; how he somehow managed to allow a casual relationship to transform into a relationship and he starts thinking – What could he have done to prevent this unfortunate circumstance? In other words,WETIN HAPPEN?

End of part one..please leave your comments.