Solomon Buchi, Relationship Coach Infuriates Netizens With Controversial Love Note To His Partner
Renowned Nigerian relationship coach, Solomon Buchi has infuriated his followers with an open letter where he addressed his partner, Arike Adeola.
Solomon Buchi in his statement wrote that his partner is “not the most beautiful” nor “most intelligent“, both phrases raise eyebrows among his readers on social media. Some of the commentators dubbed the life coach insensitive for describing his partner in such a manner.
Equally, the relationship coach announced his engagement to his partner, Arike a couple of weeks ago.
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In a statement published on his Instagram platform on Sunday, Solomon Buchi eulogized his partner, Arike who was leaving the country to further her studies overseas.
The opening part of his note reads, “You’re not the most beautiful woman; neither are you the most intelligent woman, but I’ve chosen to never find perfection in anyone else.”
He continued, “I put my gaze on you, and with that commitment, we would mold ourselves for ourselves. Our perfection is in our commitment.”
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In his second paragraph, Solomon Buchi made attempt to explain his standpoint. Specifically, the writer mentioned that his partner not being the best is what suits him primarily because he is not “looking for the best”.
His statement reads further, “stating that you’re not the most beautiful/intelligent might sound like it’s not a compliment, yeah? But it’s a realistic base for real love.”
“Acknowledging that my woman isn’t the best, but I’m not looking for the best. I was looking for you and I found you. There’s no best, there is just someone you choose and see the best in them. This to me is the real love. Not the one that consoles itself in the faux reality that their partner is the most good looking, most intelligent, most successful person in the world,” he added.
In the concluding part of his statement, the writer and life coach expressed his love for his partner.
He wrote, “I love you, ayanfe. I’m committed to you. I miss you so much!!! But my love for you is stronger than distance.”
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Reactions have since trailed Buchi’s post on the social media platform, Twitter.
Here is what netizens have to say.
People attacked Solomon Buchi for this and people defended him too.
See, your partner needs that confidence. The moment you CHOOSE, he/she becomes the best, the greatest, and everything. Who is truly the most beautiful woman in the world?
Even beauty pageant is about choice. pic.twitter.com/76Oe4I6G2U— DISTINGUISHED Everest (@novieverest) July 25, 2022
Them dey cook Solomon Buchi for Facebook for telling the whole world that her wife to be isn’t the most beautiful and intelligent woman in the world. 🥶🥶 pic.twitter.com/CGXmCiRX6k
— Chudy ☯︎ (@OkparaNnaJiAku) July 25, 2022
Solomon Buchi na you do this one on Monday.
Men will collect today.
— DISTINGUISHED Everest (@novieverest) July 25, 2022
What Solomon Buchi said is the truth. However, some truths are best kept to yourself.
— FaeNiwo (@FOmoviro) July 25, 2022
If anybody should be triggered by Solomon Buchi’s love letter to his wife, it should be his wife who he was obviously talking about, not me a random stranger.
While y’all are triggered, he could be collecting kisses yonder. Let’s focus on Buhari pls.
— 👑 Blessed🦋 (@Girl_isBlessed) July 25, 2022
I understand Solomon Buchi doesn’t mean to say those comments to make his partner feel some type of way. He was just caught in the euphoria of abroad fiancé.
It is insensitive to say your partner is not the most beautiful or most intelligent. Even if she is not, keep that shit.
— Uncle Charles (@AkwariCharles) July 25, 2022
You can never be the most intelligent, beautiful, wealthy, handsome, smart or anything in the world, you’ll always find someone way better than you. Solomon Buchi was only expressing himself in a way only him understands, how you people interpret that is your problems not his.
— *Pablo Martini* (@PabloHoggs) July 25, 2022
I detest fake compliments and this guy is just being real, it appears that the world will fight anyone who doesn’t fake his own tho.
As you read this tweet now, you are the most intelligent lady in the world abi?
Go and sleep pls.
😎@Solomon_Buchi #love #BBNaijaS7 pic.twitter.com/eG60lOvrMX
— Revd Harrison Ayintete (@Preacherrapper) July 25, 2022
You people that are dragging Solomon Buchi, did his wife tell you she had a problem with what he wrote? Did she tell you she didn’t get whatever message he aimed to pass?
Go and marry your own and write whatever you want. Don’t disturb us
— KWEKU THE HUSTLER, FOCUSED ON SELLING PETER OBI (@urchilla01) July 25, 2022
Solomon Buchi is too loquacious. Man is steady talking way too much and it’s easy to drop retarded comments.
I get the excitement and all to appear a near perfect relationship builder.
Man should take it easy.
But some of you are just jealous of the guy.
— Uncle Charles (@AkwariCharles) July 25, 2022
Solomon Buchi next time he writes to his babe:
Hail thee my better half, everlasting Love of my Life,
Lilly of the Valley, Rose of Sharon, Daughter of Jezebel… pic.twitter.com/VF2mVG63PL— Bádéjo (@peace_badejo) July 25, 2022
I really don’t get why they’re dragging Solomon Buchi though. He said the truth tbvh. I mean it might be a little out of place for the romantic text he’s tryna pen but man didn’t lie. So🤷🏻♀️
— Awori Breed (@iamyeesha__) July 25, 2022
Me personally, I don’t see the sense in what the Solomon Buchi guy posted sha. Would never subject someone I love to trolling. That’s my personal opinion
But if the wife is ok with it, and that’s the kind of couple they are, then nothing anybody says on the internet matters.
— Bash 我创造 🍊 (@scozky) July 25, 2022
Solomon Buchi talks too much. Trying to appear as the perfect imperfect couple. He should calm down,social media doesn’t care,it’s all gist over here.
— Adaobi Peter Obi👩⚕️🤰 (@ChinonyelumH) July 25, 2022
If you’ve ever dated or married a narccisistic partner, you’d read that Solomon Buchi’s note differently.
— #GettalkingwithEsther (@EstherIjewere) July 25, 2022
I guess the people dragging Solomon Buchi have a big challenge understanding English.
What a beautiful write-up. pic.twitter.com/CQ94uAUbC7
— Solomon Eweaye (@SolomonEnos1) July 25, 2022
that man is unfortunate and I side eye babes who repost his shit. Imagine following Solomon Buchi in 2022
love yourself.
— AF (@chocomocococo) July 25, 2022
