‘Not Every Man Who Cheats On You Is Bad’ – Actress, Iyabo Ojo Incites Backlash Over Instagram Post

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Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo is facing some scathing remarks over her Instagram post earlier yesterday.

She caused quite the reaction in her comment section on Instagram after sharing her thoughts that promiscuous men are better than abusive men.

According to her, it’s in every man’s nature to cheat.

Read her post below.

Ladies, Not every man who cheats on u is bad! it’s in their nature to cheat as every man has a bit of it deposited in them. He may love u but still cheat on u, as long as he respect, care n keeps it far away from u. it’s a twisted world my dear but that’s just d fact. if u find one who doesn’t cheat on u then u are extremely blessed but A man who makes u feel less of ur self, a man who enjoys seeing u beg n wail, a man who doesn’t care if u fall into depression a million times until U run mad, a man who makes u feel like nothing, a man who throws ur love back 2 ur face @ every given opportunity, a man who feels u are so unattractive that he doesn’t want to take u out anymore giving u that low self esteem, a man who never appreciate anything u do for him, a man who feels ur opinion doesn’t count, a man who feels u shld be seen n not heard, a man who feels without him u are nothing, a man who will only have u when he wants u, a man who doesn’t fight for u, a man who condemns u to his friends n side chicks, a man who looks @ u with so much irritation, a man who flaunts his side chick in front of u, a man who is physically & mentally abusive towards u n sometimes ur kids, a Man U have to always beg to perform his manly duty b4 he agrees to touch u! That man is so bad n so wrong 4 u, stop asking me what shld I do? Oh the society n my friends will mock me, oh my kids! Hello woman, wake up he doesn’t love you, stop looking for excuses for him, his love was never real in d first place, Mrs is not a do or die matter, ur happiness shld always come first, u shld always come first, it’s only when u are in the right frame of mind that u can take gud care of ur kids. For the record, mothers who vent their anger on their kids for failed husband issues shld stop it! No be them send u message, u made d choice n it turned out wrong, u can always make it right without him! u either die trying or take a reality check n walk out! it’s never too late! If u stay in it well – all d best! Its a lost battle n u are on ur own. Ur happiness must always come first if u turly want to live for ur kids n urself #strongwomen #strongmothers #strongwomensupportingrealwomen”

 

One of her fans, Anne had this to say; “Both of them are bad. Let’s not give excuses. A man who cheats on you can expose you to various diseases and cause you to battle with low self esteem, you could also go to jail in your attempt to fight for the stability of your home. The Bible warns both men and women to flee immortality not only women”

While another fan, with the screen name ,The Real Nigerian slammed her for her comments;

“This is just a load of idiotic, barely coherent, flawed nonsense.
Look at what the Patriarchy has done to the mindset of this woman.
Finding a man who doesn’t cheat means you are extremely blessed? Why are we setting the bar so low for our men?
It is not bad enough that women are tolerating infidelity, now they are encouraging and enabling it? Oh my.
This is so sad.”

Another was of the opinion that her post was an insult to men;

“Like i could not even finish reading. Actually, if i were a man i would be insulted by this post. This lady just basically said you lot do not have control over your minds and bodies…. that’s not flattering, to say the least”

The bulk of the comments where however not in her favour or anyway near positive as they really laid into her for an opinion which according to some should never have made it to Instagram.

MDBers, Do you agree with Iyabo Ojo? Was she right in her assertions about men and the stereotyped philandering nature? 

 

2 Comments
  1. Bomi says

    Wow, ching ching, that’s a jackpot, woman of my dreams, where at thou been since… Sola please can you get me her number, if she’s not married I’ll like to date her. Finally I find a woman who’s open to an open relationship on my part…

    On a more serious note, I think it’s old mentality and to me such idea needs to be erased, because it’s gives men reason to cheat. Let’s call a spade a spade, cheating is bad…

    1. Sola Ayeotan says

      Lol, That ship has sailed sir . She is married with two kids though. I think to Muka Ray, a yoruba actor

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